How are you with forming new habits? What happened the last time you tried waking up earlier, improving your diet, reading more, or sticking to an exercise routine? The struggle often isn’t with the habit itself — it’s with how you see yourself. Today’s concept will help you break free from the cycle of failed habits and build lasting change.
The Identity Shift Method is a psychological approach to behavior change that focuses on becoming the type of person who naturally embodies the habits you want, rather than just forcing yourself to do them. Instead of saying, “I want to run more,” you shift to “I am a runner.”
How It Works
Define your Identity – Identify the type of person who achieves the goal you’re after. (E.g., If you want to write every day, think: “I am a writer.”)
Act As If – Start making small, frictionless decisions that align with that identity, even if they seem minor. (If you want to be a reader, carry a book with you and read one page during lunch.)
Reinforce Through Evidence – Each time you act in alignment with your new identity, it strengthens the belief that this is who you are.
Everyday Examples
Fitness: Instead of aiming to “lose weight,” shift to “I am someone who prioritizes health.”
Productivity: Instead of saying, “I need to be more organized,” adopt “I am the type of person who values structure and efficiency.”
Learning: Instead of struggling with “I need to read more,” embrace “I am a curious person who loves learning.”
How Does It Affect Me?
Builds lasting change – Shifting identity creates habits that stick because they feel natural, not forced.
Eliminates friction – Rather than resisting change, you shape your actions to align with an identity that naturally supports them. You want the shortest path to the quick win.
Increases confidence – When you believe in your new identity, self-doubt fades, and consistency follows. This is a long-term transformation that happens gradually, often without you even realizing it.
Today’s Newsletter Challenge
Think of a habit you’ve struggled with. Instead of focusing on the action, ask yourself: Who is the kind of person that does this effortlessly? Now, take one small action today that aligns with that identity. Then reward yourself for being that new person.
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